How to Cope with a boyfriend who doesn't want to get married

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At our age we can never say what is going to happen in the future. When it comes up it turns into a huge fight.

He still lives at home with his parents. Now she comes to birthday parties we have and even family get togethers.

7 Signs Your Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Get Married

I remember my last serious relationship. It was with a guy who had been dating me for years, and it was one of those relationships that everyone felt was going to go the distance. Like many people, I was really looking forward to being married to a man I thought loved me. He knew that marriage was a major focal point for me. Unfortunately, he didn't feel the same. After a series of arguments, he eventually ended up dumping me, and that was that. All I wanted was to be married to him, and he didn't ever even want to give me that option. I was furious with him, and felt like he cheated me out of time I could have spent with a man who was worthwhile. And yet part of me was furious with myself. Not only did I feel cheated out of a wedding ring I believe I should have by now, but I also felt anger with myself for staying with him thinking he'd see the light. In spite of how alone I felt the months after, I realize I'm not the only one who's dealt with this. There are many, many people out there who want to get married but are with partners that don't want that with them. Looking back, I realize that I probably should have handled things differently. If I could go back in time, I would have given myself the following advice. However, I can't, so I'll just give it to others who are in my situation - and hope that they'll be wiser than I was. Before you actually do anything involving interaction with your partner - or others - ask yourself honestly how much you need to be married. For many people, myself included, marriage is not something that you can negotiate on. Even if my partner was perfect in every other way, I would not want to stay with him if he didn't want to marry me. For me, a man's decision to get engaged and walk down the aisle with me is the only way I'd ever believe him when he says he loves me. After all, talk is cheap. That kind of walk, though, says more than a million stupid little love notes could. On the other hand, my friend Luna is totally different than me in this respect. Our other mutual friend, Dawn, couldn't really care either way. If it happens, it happens. If it didn't, she'd be equally happy. Prioritize your marriage goal. Are you an Ossiana? Are you a Dawn? Or, are you a wedding-averse Luna? As much as it pains me to say this, no matter what you do for a man, it will never convince him to marry you. If he really doesn't want to pop the question, nothing will make him do it. So, if you are someone who really prioritizes marriage, you need to be ready to leave him. That being said, if you're in a relationship with a guy that you care about, you need to make it clear that marriage is something you need from him in a very direct, business-like way. After all, he does need to know if he's about to be dumped over this, right? If this isn't something you're willing to provide me, I should know as soon as possible. Don't flip out at him. Ask him why, and try to work things out. If he still won't budge, your best bet is to tell him that you understand, and CALMLY gather your belongings. Take all your items from his house, and tell him that you need time to think about whether or not you can continue with him. Then, consider going out with friends for the rest of the month. There's a good chance he may come back with a ring and a wedding date in mind. If he doesn't contact you after that month, start seeing other people. On the other hand, if he calls you but keeps ignoring the subject of marriage, you may want to tell him that you want to open up the relationship. After all, his refusal to commit shouldn't get in the way of you getting a wedding. What hurts is that he may end up being okay with you leaving - and that could be the end of your relationship. But if you really want to be married as badly as I do, then continuing this relationship would have just led to more wasted time and more hurt. At the end of the day, a guy who won't marry a woman who loves him is a fool. He's losing out on a lifetime of love and happiness - and really, who doesn't want that with someone? If he doesn't want to marry you, you might want to ask why. If he won't say why, or if it's the idea of loss that scares him, you may need to talk things out. You might find out what keeps him away from the altar is the ceremony, family drama, or issues. These things can worked out in therapy or with an alternative marriage method. And, then you can get a wedding you want. However, if you're getting the feeling that he's just playing you for a fool, you may want to rethink staying with him. That often says that he already knows he doesn't want to marry - especially if money really isn't an issue that he makes it out to be. You do a lot for him. Why isn't that good enough for him to fully commit? Though not everyone is meant for marriage, I do believe that men say volumes about how much they care by the commitment they have. Seriously, life is too short to deal with guys who are too weak to commit. That being said, if you do end up single because he won't pop the question, start by telling guys that you won't stop dating other men unless they are engaged to you and have a date picked out. It's the easiest way to weed out the men who aren't really serious.

Then, consider going out with friends for the rest of the month. If you are not married, and one of you dies, the other will not inherit anything unless it is spelled out in a will. Not to mention remaining diabetes and other remaining illnesses. I disagree we are not rich or cant piece over the top but I feel we should have something to celebrate our big day. Try to look beyond what other people say and think. We were both previously married to others me for 14 years, him for 10 and both have children from those marriages. Its up to each one of us to note the flavor. But your girlfriend isn't wrong either. Because if you love him enough to want to marry him, you can prove and show it by being with him without getting married. Which, sorry, sounds about as shallow as marrying for a wedding. The same goes for custodes. All of a sudden I want to marry him more than anything.